Your Perfect Dream Girl

Influencers, AI, and the Future of Desire by Sukhnidh Kaur | Feminist Nonfiction on Social Media, Gender, Technology and Power

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Fifteen years ago, Sukhnidh Kaur became an influencer. Now twenty-seven, she sits down to analyse every DM, selfie, and insecurity collected over a decade—and reckons with what happened to her girlhood.

Written as twenty-five letters to a faceless man, Kaur’s generation-defining debut traces what shapes young urban women’s lives online—filters, followers, snark forums that turn girls into bloodsport, dating apps, deepfakes, AI girlfriends—and stares down the churning abyss of how we got here.

A dossier of real stories, journal entries, love letters men sent her growing up, and interviews with industry insiders, Your Perfect Dream Girl builds a single argument: women are the most lucrative product of every technological revolution, and AI is about to industrialise every broken part of how we consume them.